To me, this book was not funny - it was brutal and raw. It very much pushed the boundaries of what I normally read. In fact, I almost stopped reading the book early on after I reached an incident involving worms.
However, I made myself persevere and to digest the incidents narrated. It was difficult because it was so negative.
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Not only the content, but the tone. It was wave after wave of snarkiness and bitterness. I found myself torn between empathising with the author for what she endured and yet not liking her very much as she describes some of the ways she treats people as she grows older.
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Whilst I would not read this sort of book again, I am glad that I made it to the end. The last few pages do throw perspective on the hard slog through the rest of the book. The ending makes you think of what happens between the incidents narrated. There are those of us who look back on the past as a golden age and miss out on living where we are now. Then there are those of us who do not live in the now because we are too bitter with what has gone before.
We tend to hone in on specific events to affirm a view and forget the fullness of emotion with which life usually comes. Definitely not a book for the faint-hearted or those looking for a story with eloquent writing or likeable characters. May 11, Victoria rated it it was ok Shelves: kindle , , non-fiction , autobiography. It said it was a comedy Really, though, it was the sad story of an abused girl Oct 17, Kristina rated it it was amazing Shelves: nonfiction , memoir , chick-lit. Read the full review Frazzled Book Nommer. From the very first page, Marie exudes brazen, blatant honesty.
I applaud Marie for being audacious enough to publicly write about these stories. Marie, however, exposes every raw moment of her childhood — from abuse, to rape, to sexual encounters. Thi Read the full review Frazzled Book Nommer. This memoir was so full of honesty that I was mildly surprised at first; it takes some getting used to my jaw dropped at least 10 times while I was reading.
This memoir was a complete emotional roller coaster. There were times when I cried, there were times when I laughed. I personally guarantee you will laugh at the first page of this memoir. Every time a scene with her father came up, I wanted to personally run over to Marie and give her a big hug.
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She could have easily succumbed and taken her abuse silently, or even become depressed, but that never happened. Her head was still held high and she took her life into her own hands once she hit college. I was very impressed with the strength that she had. And I have to mention her grandmother Amalia, who I fell in love with. Any old grandma that chases a perverted old uncle up the street, screaming obscenities in Portuguese, is definitely okay in my book. She was always a constant beacon of hope, at least from my perspective. Every time her grandma was mentioned, everything would get slightly better — not completely, but marginally.
Lastly, I love the fact that Marie tried to go back and reconcile with a few people from her past that she had wronged, such as Randall Johnson. I gained so much respect for her for writing an apology to him, and even more-so for Randall, for graciously forgiving her.
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This novel is definitely thought-provoking, strong, and crazy. It deals with abuse, rape, forgiveness, mistakes, religion, stereotypes, and personal growth. View 2 comments. Shelves: inspirational , blood-on-our-hands , catholic-faith-issues-history , break-the-cycle , cathartic , cultural-studies , humour , strength-from-struggle , favourites , relationships. The author Marie Simas was kind enough to send me a copy of her book.
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The title lead me to believe that this was a unique yet personal view of how one lived and survived under the dogma of the Roman Catholic Church. After a few exchanged emails, I stood corrected and was still intrigued by her story. As a former Roman Catholic, I am always curious to see and hear others' perspectives of their church and cultural experiences. I read Marie's brilliant diary of her life with a heavy heart and more t The author Marie Simas was kind enough to send me a copy of her book. I read Marie's brilliant diary of her life with a heavy heart and more than a few laughs and smiles.
She has an amazing way of dealing with her abusive and tragic at times upbringing. Many in her shoes would have cracked under the pressure, but Marie was obviously blessed with spiritual Teflon and a strong sense of self esteem and spunk. I am hopeful that this book was therapeutic for Marie and helped her gain closure to a very unfair upbringing.
I am also prayerful that readers in similar situations will be inspired by her strength and resilience and move on, move forward, and heal. Child abuse, sexual abuse, and domestic violence can only be prevented and prosecuted with public attention and shining the light on the ignorance and criminal behaviours of it's perpetrators. Books like these are a first crucial step in this long and seemingly endless process. View 1 comment. Dec 06, Veronica Noechel rated it liked it. I have to agree with other reviewers who warned that this is one poorly titled book.
It lures you in, thinking in my case that this will be a light, comical book about growing up female and the misconceptions we all had, a good cheer-me-up after that Auschwitz book I just read. Hell no. H-e-l-l n-o. While the stories are fast paced and not poorly written, they tell a disturbing story of culturally accepted child abuse. I felt for the girl in the stories, but ultimately was left wondering "why I have to agree with other reviewers who warned that this is one poorly titled book.
I felt for the girl in the stories, but ultimately was left wondering "why are you telling me this? While I didn't regret reading this book, I also wouldn't recommend it to a friend. It just didn't give me enough to hang onto. Nov 28, Murphy's Library rated it really liked it.
The memoirs go from sad to funny in a matter of a few pages, and you see yourself in little details. But it was. You see it in the little rich details that the narrative has. And let me tell you: I really like this narrative. Really, really, really liked it. I found amazing the nonchalant way Marie uses to speak, and each story is so much more than just the few pages where it was. The tone was an amazing weapon used to the brim by Marie Simas. I could think of dozens of different titles that would be more… commercial. The revision was very good, the book was extremely well written, the edition was simple, but very good too.
The title and the cover—that matches the name—where the only things that bothered me. While the narrative worked fine for Marie Simas, it could put some people a little more sensitive off, more than me.
Overall, it is a very good memoir book and I had a great time reading it. I tried and had a great time tampons and all. Jan 31, Debbie rated it liked it Shelves: , review-copy , memoir , first-reads , non-fiction , dead-tree. I started reading it as soon as I got home and saw it in the mail, and finished it a little over two hours later. Overall, I really liked the book. It was quirky, a bit gut-wrenching, disturbing, and hopeful all at the same time. Why the 3 stars then? Because I can't get over the title.
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It's an interesting title, a unique title, a title that is sure to make someone do a double take. Unfortunately, it's also, in my opinion, a horrible title for this book as it completely gives the wrong impressio I started reading it as soon as I got home and saw it in the mail, and finished it a little over two hours later. Unfortunately, it's also, in my opinion, a horrible title for this book as it completely gives the wrong impression about what the book is about.
This was not a memoir of a Catholic girl writing about weird questions she had to deal with. It was a memoir of a girl, who just happened to be Catholic though religion isn't a big part of this book at all , writing about growing up with an extremely abusive and horrendous father and moving past that. Simas tells a compelling story.
I was a little thrown at first by the episodic nature of the book, but it becomes clear just why she chose that structure at the very last few pages of the book. She writes about some truly traumatic and horrific experiences defiantly, catharticly, and with a bit of tongue-in-cheek humor I admired. I don't know if I could have survived in her family and emerged half-way functioning. Review copy courtesy of the author via Goodreads First Reads Mar 04, Kristen rated it liked it. This book needs a Trigger Warning!!
Talk of physical, verbal, psychological, emotional and sexual abuse. I expected more humour then what was in the book but then maybe that is all in the eye of the reader as I can relate to having to find humour in dark places. I thank Marie for being so open about her childhood experiences. Help on searching. Les Pensees Dangereuses: Dangerous thoughts about life, love, pets, friends and depression. Animals , Biography , Non-fiction.